Expectations: How do you deal with it?

Hi there everyone! It's been quite a while since the last time I wrote my last entry. I hope this won't disappoint you guys. There have been lots of things going on to my life and I have many splendid things to share that would somehow provoke you to share your ideas.

Let's start on the word EXPECTATION. How do you guys deal with this matter? What do you do when you manage to meet your expectations? People usually celebrate, right?

But what if you got disappointed because you fail to achieve your or other people's expectation, what do you usually do? Cry? Scream? Remain Silent?

Recently, I happened to see one of William Shakespeare's quote saying that "Expectation is the root of all heartache." Yes, I quite agree on this famous poet's idea. We, as human, usually establish expectation. Most of the time, we expect good things to happen. However, if failure takes place, that is the time people will feel heartache. This is the common cycle we always encounter. A cycle that helps a person mold himself in terms of his personality, social life, mindset, and judgement towards things. Mainly, this depicts a person's life.

Even me, I always deal with this particular cycle. A cycle that sometimes create happiness and heartaches. I hope these expectations won't give a long time disappointment to me, because honestly speaking, I don't know how am I suppose to handle those disappointments.

You, how do you handle things based on your EXPECTATIONS?

Quote: "I miss you"

Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night.  I miss you like hell.
~Edna St Vincent Millay




This surely is one of the hardest things that I should face, missing my beloved partner so bad that makes me feel down knowing we're apart from each other. I know it is hard, but I have to do this. It is better to look at the brighter side, than to punish myself from the agony of missing you so bad.

"Long Distance Relationship": Is it True or Not?

Hi readers,

It's been a while since the last time I posted my last entry here in My Guy. I was kinda preoccupied in the past few days. For today, I'll be talking about my experience for having a relationship that most people normally call "Long Distance Relationship."

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"If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together. There is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart... I'll always be with you." 

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To begin with, I am currently in a transition where it requires me to adjust in so many things.Starting from the time of my sleep, stretching my budget, getting along with different people with different personalities, and more. What's more hard for me is the fact that I am far from my love ones, as well as to my significant someone. I can deal with all of these dramas and mishaps, but what I cannot tolerate is my emotion whenever I start missing my significant someone.

Being away with him is not that easy. I hate to say this, but it is like a torture to me. I don't know. Some say that this type of relationship won't work, while others say it works. In my case, I don't want to lose him, so as me to him. We share the same thoughts of not wanting to lose each other.

As I went here, it is not easy for the two of us, most especially to me. All of my plans for the two of us were ruined. Career wise, I chose to proceed. Currently, we are both sacrificing, and holding on to our promises to each other.

In our case, temptations and fools are always lurking around trying to break us apart. Hopefully, we make it and our love and faith for each other will keep us holding on to each other.

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My Guy's Opinion:

Long distance relationship is a very serious and sensitive matter. Everybody's opinion regarding on this issue, whether it won't last or not, were both happening in reality. This type of relationship will only last depending on how both lovers will manage and control the flow of their relationship. It will only be broken if one or both individual tends to become weak and got provoke by certain circumstances.

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